My partner of 30 years wants to leave. How can I get her to stay?

Turning things around will depend on how much you can both forgive, says Mariella Frostrup

The dilemma After a happy relationship lasting 30 years and bringing up two beautiful children, my partner says she hasn’t felt supported or been able to talk to me for the past three years. During this time, we’ve suffered several tragedies – the death of my stepdad, the death of my partner’s mother and the s****l assault of our daughter at a party last year – which led to me taking time off from my highly stressful work environment as I struggled to cope.

I’ve discovered texts to her old male college friends where she talked about not loving me any more and not finding me sexually attractive – and I’m heartbroken. The woman I love more than anything in the world wants to leave me. We’ve had several counselling sessions and now live day by day in the “grey zone”, at least until our daughter goes to university next September.

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Source: theguardian
My partner of 30 years wants to leave. How can I get her to stay?